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Victims: A Challenge

Post author:Relationship Egg
Post published:March 18, 2020
Post category:Making it Better

It is not fair. You have had a bad deal. You are a victim, frozen with a feeling of powerlessness. There are three responses to threat: fight, flight and freeze.…

Separation and Anger

Post author:Relationship Egg
Post published:March 8, 2020
Post category:Managing Change

Of course you are angry – you were let down, betrayed, and left in the lurch. Why submit? You are losing so much: hope, a vision of a loving future,…

Security vs Freedom

Post author:Relationship Egg
Post published:February 21, 2020
Post category:Different and Together

In her wonderful book, “Mating in Captivity”, Esther Perel says that the tension between security and freedom is “.. a paradox to manage, not a problem to solve.” Relationships often…

The Brain and Relationship

Post author:Relationship Egg
Post published:February 18, 2020
Post category:Me and Relationship

The primary aim of the brain is to keep us alive.It continually scans around for danger.Only when it feels safe can it play, be productive, nurture, mate, think.In the face…