Victims: A Challenge
It is not fair. You have had a bad deal. You are a victim, frozen with a feeling of powerlessness. There are three responses to threat: fight, flight and freeze.…
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Victims: A Challenge
It is not fair. You have had a bad deal. You are a victim, frozen with a feeling of powerlessness. There are three responses to threat: fight, flight and freeze.…
Of course you are angry – you were let down, betrayed, and left in the lurch. Why submit? You are losing so much: hope, a vision of a loving future,…
In her wonderful book, “Mating in Captivity”, Esther Perel says that the tension between security and freedom is “.. a paradox to manage, not a problem to solve.” Relationships often…
The primary aim of the brain is to keep us alive.It continually scans around for danger.Only when it feels safe can it play, be productive, nurture, mate, think.In the face…